Toni Hargis
Feb 28, 2022

When it's work-based, it's not only offensive to you but to the person who hired or promoted you. It insinuates that the other person couldn't see past your looks.

I suggest a response along the lines of -

"If you're really concerned that I don't deserve this promotion, I'd be happy to ask (boss) to talk you through their decision-making process."

Toni Hargis
Toni Hargis

Written by Toni Hargis

Co-author of “How to Stand up to Sexism; Words for when enough is enough”. Helping women find their voices. @ToniHargis

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