We need to just scream - If a guy starts chasing us in a pool (wtf???) we need to stop being nice or 'not making a scene', we need to scare the crap out of them , draw attention to the behavior and ensure it doesn't happen again.

Women are not the offenders in these cases, yet we're still expected not to make a fuss. If a guy tried to take over our table in the coffee shop, yes, we can say we don't want the company but - it must be with a smile, otherwise we're just a Bi*ch, right?

ENOUGH with all of it.