"I note that this system (if it exists) should not be producing outcomes that are so disadvantageous to men."

They are not disadvantageous to men on the whole. Men, as you know very well, were afforded (by men) rights which women had to fight for over decades if not centuries. The disadvantage, even now, is to women.

You've mentioned "various pieces" of evidence to your theories - this is not a negative so please cite them here. I can't comment on something you don't produce, as you will "appreciate".