I can assure you, having been closely studying this for almost two years now, there are no statistics to back up your assertion that many men’s reputations are ruined because of women’s lies about rape and assault. Furthermore, there is no belief that all women are telling the truth; that’s why most rape cases are not prosecuted, and why many women don’t even report them in the first place. There is a pattern of putting the woman on trial, as we are seeing here.
The ‘believe all women’ suggestion meant, “Let’s not immediately go to the default of believing the man, and looking for ulterior motives in the woman”. And saying that she’s doing a “huge disservice…” yada, yada, is once again, silencing her.
I’m not defending her because I don’t have access to all the facts presented formally (rather than in biased articles), but again, women who tell lies can still be raped.