"Fathers are completely capable; many just choose not to be."

Women must also step back and let them get on with it. If there are two parents in the house, then there are two parenting styles, neither of which is always right or always wrong.

Ditto folding laundry, stacking-unstacking the dishwasher, preparing lunches - if you're the type who thinks "It's quicker/easier to do it myself", you're making a rod for your own back.